1.17.2006

TIP: When you're first starting out

via AskMen -- Should a guy make an effort to learn "pickup lines," or does that stuff not really work when it comes to meeting women?...

Lines and techniques can be helpful when you're first starting out... and some of them work pretty damn well! But the truth is you won't achieve the massive success you desire until it comes from inside of you.

I've begun to see a pattern that almost all guys go through when learning this stuff:

Stage 1: Uses the lines and techniques he learns to "get out there" and get started. Experiences some success, and learns a lot.

Stage 2: Internalizes the right attitudes and beliefs, and starts to experience "natural success." Uses lines every once in a while, but doesn't rely on them.

Stage 3: Learns to attract women naturally and effortlessly. Makes up his own lines and techniques as he goes.

Keep this in mind, and use the lines and techniques you learn as "training wheels" to help take you to where you want to be, but make your ultimate goal to become a guy who "naturally" attracts women...

Working Smart quick takeaway: Just as in dating, many job hunters place too much emphasis on pre-canned interview answers when they are first starting down the path to landing a job, not realizing they are nothing more than what they really are - training wheels.

Category: C++ Quant > Land the Job You Want

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