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» TIP: Career lessons from the top 10 newsmakers
» MISC: Kobe, Oprah, and Late Night bits
» TIP: You're "really busy" - so what?
» TIP: The many 'faces' of a situational leader
» TIP: Keep your goals where I can see them, Boss
» TIP: "You're 100 percent correct."
» TIP: Make your actions count
» MISC: Seeing my 11-year-old perusing a website filled with photos of Britney Spears

TIP: Sometimes things aren't always what they seem

A young housewife once told me: "My husband and I never argue, no matter how angry we may be. Instead we sit down and rationally discuss both sides of the dispute. Then I make a list of all the dishware I intend to smash."

What may seem like a rational dispute may not actually be one. Guess what they say are true

  • Don't judge a book by its cover
  • Empty vessels make the most noise

Category: C++ Quant > Random Walk > Opportunity vs Trap > Style vs Substance

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TIP: Tell me a story, and I'll tell you its "point"

When Jesus wanted to say something important, he usually told a story, benjaminsternke blogged. For those who paid attention (ears to hear), the story worked its way under their skin without their knowing it, transforming everything before they were even aware of it, confronting falsehood, killing off old dreams, and opening up new possibilties. For everyone else (no ears to hear), they were simply the stories of a quirky redneck teacher (can anything good come out of Nazareth? they said, snickering). Then in private, to his disciples, Jesus "explained everything." The disciples got the propositions, the "point" of the stories.

It seems we do things the other way around. Jesus told the story first, and gave the propositions later, to a smaller number of people. We say the proposition first, and then "back it up" with our stories, which aren't really art as much as they are "illustrations." That is, illustrations of "the point". The proposition is king, art is the embarassing step-child.

Perhaps we're afraid to leave things hanging for people. Perhaps we feel the need to wrap everything up in a tidy 30-minute package (sitcom sermons?) so people won't leave feeling disrupted or uncomfortable. But it seems that Jesus told the stories so that people would be uncomfortable and frustrated. Perhaps we need more preaching that dismantles and tears down and rebuilds and replants. More trickster preaching: Preaching that raises questions and winks and makes startling connections and shakes worldviews and causes us to recoil in horror and surrender to grace...

Working Smart's quick takeaway: when you find yourself in a sitiuation where you need to beat around the bushes to see who's on your side, telling a story about your 'rival' (without revealing your "points") is a good starting point to provoke and collect comments.

Category: C++ Quant > Fix the Job You Got > Opportunity vs Trap > Beat around the bush

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TIP: Career lessons from the top 10 newsmakers

via Monster - Every year, a few names and faces dominate the headlines and everyday conversation. Ten such newsmakers -- whether in politics, sports, business or entertainment -- made waves in their careers in 2005, for better or worse. Now it's time to discover the everyday career lessons you can learn from their successes and failures

Michael Brown

Disaster preparedness and response are serious matters, so it's surprising Brown's background wasn't vetted more thoroughly before he was appointed director of the Federal Emergency Management Agency in 2003. His glaring lack of experience in emergency management became evident in the chaotic aftermath of Hurricane Katrina. Under fire for his agency's slow response, Brown tried to blame state and local officials as well as the residents who didn't evacuate -- many of whom were too poor or frail to flee -- for the unfolding disaster. Two weeks after the storm hit in late August 2005, the year's poster boy for the bad fit resigned.

Your Lesson: Make sure the candidate you select for a critical position is battle-tested.

Mariah Carey

Carey has a stunning voice and was the best-selling female artist of the '90s. But even with such assets, she hit a career slump in 2001 when she made Glitter, one of the most critically panned movies ever, and suffered a well-publicized emotional breakdown. The losing streak continued with the movie's soundtrack album. Carey's 2003 follow-up, which, like its predecessor, featured a new, whispery singing style, didn't exactly set the charts on fire, either. All that changed when "The Emancipation of Mimi," heralded at its April 2005 release as "the return of The Voice," went quadruple platinum and netted Carey a bevy of awards.

Your Lesson: For career success, stick with your strengths...

Judith Miller

The New York Times has seen its share of scandal in the last few years (Remember Jayson Blair?), and 2005 was no exception. This summer, veteran Times reporter Miller chose to spend 85 days in jail rather than testify about her conversations with I. Lewis "Scooter" Libby, Dick Cheney's former chief of staff, in a CIA leak investigation. After Miller relented and was released, the Times blamed her for running with later-discredited information before the Iraq war that alleged Saddam Hussein had weapons of mass destruction. Amid infighting and scandal, Miller retired in November. In a recent interview with the BBC, Miller gave her side of the story: "The intelligence information that I was accurately reporting was wrong. I guess if your sources are wrong, you're going to be wrong." Times op-ed columnist Maureen Dowd, who called Miller a "woman of mass destruction" in her column, responded during a Radar interview: "Just because your sources tell you something, you don't put it in the paper."

Your Lesson: To ensure your credibility at work, double-check your information...

Terrell Owens

Since the beginning of his NFL career, Owens has been known for his antics both on and off the field. The latest debacle came about when he publicly chastised both the Philadelphia Eagles organization and quarterback Donovan McNabb. This was the last straw for the team, who suspended TO for the remainder of the season and will not be re-signing him next year. Owens may be one of the best wide receivers today, but his egotistical behavior has cost him millions of dollars -- not to mention the goodwill of many fans. Recently, Owens apologized to his fans and teammates in a public statement and said, "It really hurts me not to be part of the team anymore. I feel really bad...my strength is sometimes my greatest weakness."

Your Lesson: If you can't work well with others, it may be hard to find work.

Category: C++ Quant > Fix the Job You Got

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MISC: Kobe, Oprah, and Late Night bits

  • Everybody is still talking about Kobe Bryant's 81 points. Kobe was asked if this will hurt his relationship with the other Lakers? Kobe said, there are other Lakers? -Jay
  • Yesterday Oprah apologized to her viewers on her show for a book that was misleading. Her viewers responded by saying, "Blah, blah, blah, where's our free car? -Conan
  • Did you see Oprah lay into that author Stephen Frey…the guy who wrote that phony book "A Million Little Pieces.? She ripped him apart for lying and then he lied again on the show. You know the sad thing, you know where pathologic liars like this usually end up, congress. - Jay

Category: C++ Quant > Random Walk > Jokes

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TIP: You're "really busy" - so what?

Have you ever wondered why two people, who have started with all the same advantages and disadvantages, which seem similar in almost every way, can end up in different places, Alex Cleanthous asked?

Have you ever wondered how somebody can start with all the disadvantages in life, yet achieve success that surpasses those who start with all the advantages?...

Successful people are satisfied by pleasing results. Unsuccessful people are satisfied by pleasing actions. Successful people are focused on the result they achieve. Unsuccessful people are focused on how they do the task.

Being results focused means setting goals and objectives, and doing everything in your power to achieve them. Being results focused means only being satisfied with results. Being results focused means not wasting time. Being results focused means taking action on the most important tasks and getting them done.

You've heard about the 80/20 rule? This simply means that 20% of your activities are responsible for 80% of your results, and 80% of your activities are responsible for 20% of your results. Being results focused means knowing what the 20% of tasks contribute 80% of the results and working single mindedly on those tasks until they are completed...

Category: C++ Quant > Fix the Job You Got > Strength vs Weakness > Efficient to Effective

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TIP: The many 'faces' of a situational leader

via ChimaeraConsulting - ...a situational leader is one who can adopt different leadership styles depending on the situation. Most of us do this anyway in our dealings with other people: we try not to get angry with a nervous colleague on their first day, we chase up tasks with some people more than others because we know they'll forget otherwise.

Ken Blanchard, the management guru best known for the "One Minute Manager" series, and Paul Hersey created a model for Situational Leadership in the late 1960's that allows you to analyse the needs of the situation you're dealing with, and then adopt the most appropriate leadership style... Blanchard and Hersey characterised leadership style in terms of the amount of direction and of support that the leader gives to his or her followers...:

  • Directing Leaders define the roles and tasks of the 'follower', and supervise them closely. Decisions are made by the leader and announced, so communication is largely one-way.
  • Coaching Leaders still define roles and tasks, but seeks ideas and suggestions from the follower. Decisions remain the leader's prerogative, but communication is much more two-way.
  • Supporting Leaders pass day-to-day decisions, such as task allocation and processes, to the follower. The leader facilitates and takes part in decisions, but control is with the follower.
  • Delegating Leaders are still involved in decisions and problem-solving, but control is with the follower. The follower decides when and how the leader will be involved.

Effective leaders are versatile in being able to move around the grid according to the situation, so there is no one right style...

Clearly the right leadership style will depend very much on the person being led - the follower - and Blanchard and Hersey extended their model to include the Development Level of the follower...

Category: C++ Quant > Fix the Job You Got > Opportunity vs Trap > Diagnosis then Prescribe

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TIP: Keep your goals where I can see them, Boss

via OneMinuteManager - I've seen a lot of unmotivated people at work in the various organizations I've been employed in over the years. But I've never seen an unmotivated person after work. Everyone seems to be motivated to do something. One night, for example, I was bowling and I saw some of the 'problem employees' at work from my last organization. One of the real problem people, who I remmeberd all too well, took the bowling ball and approached the line and rolled the ball. Then he started to scream and yell and jump around... he got a strike. He had knocked down all the pins...

Why don't you think he and other people that excited at work? Because he doesn't know where the pins are... How long would he want to bowl if there were no pins? (That's) what happens in most organizations. I believe that most managers know what they want their people to do. They just don't bother to tell their people in a way they would understand. They assume they should know... When you assume that people know what's expected of them, you are creating an ineffective form of bowling. You put the pins up but when the bowler goes to roll the ball, he notices there is a sheet across the pins. So when he rolls the ball, and it slips under the sheet, he hears a crack but doesn't know how many pins he knocked down. When you ask him how he did, he says, I dont know. But it felt good... - SpencerJohnson

Category: C++ Quant > Fix the Job You Got

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TIP: "You're 100 percent correct."

via Oprah - It doesn't matter what you're arguing about-he just wants to be right. This is his weakness; you can use it like judo, turning his own momentum against him. Saying two little words, "You're right," is the verbal equivalent of darting a raging elephant with animal tranquilizers. It gives him what he wants, reducing tensions and leaving the way open for you to get what you want.

Try it: "You're right, but I still want to go to the party." Meet every protest and argument he makes, no matter how ridiculously false, with the observation that he is absolutely correct. but you still want what you want...

Category: C++ Quant > Random Walk > Strength vs Weakness > Rope-a-Dope

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TIP: Make your actions count

via Fool - (Two lessons from Buffett) One, is act like what you are going to do is going to end up on the front page of The Washington Post because by the time a man is 60, he has the reputation he deserves. That is one of them, it sounds sort of corny and midwestern, but it is a good way to live.

Secondly, think of yourself as you go through (working) life as standing at the plate and people throwing you pitches. It is a very special baseball game. There is no one calling the balls and strikes and you can stand there forever. You have got all these people in the bleachers saying, "Hey, swing you bum!" on every second pitch. You just have to learn to ignore them and when a pitch comes along and it is straight but it is a little high inside, you let it pass. Another one comes along and it is a little low outside. Every once in a while a pitch comes along that looks like the sweetest, juiciest, fattest pitch you are ever going to see. And when it does, you swing from your heels on it. You come out of your shoes on it. That is how you go through life. And you are only going to get about ten swings like that, maybe five swings. That is what you wait for. Too many people go through life batting at every other pitch. So just wait for your opportunities and when they come you swing from your heels...

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MISC: Seeing my 11-year-old perusing a website filled with photos of Britney Spears

I commented, "She sure is pretty. Which picture do you like best?"

"I don't know," he mumbled, embarrassed by his newfound interest in girls. "I'm just reading about her."

I came closer and peered at the screen. "Oh, really?" I said. "So, when did you learn to read Spanish?" - via RD

Category: C++ Quant > Random Walk > Jokes

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